People most often ask themselves: how to find out my role, what is closer to me? It is recommended to start with the DS format – dominance and submission. This is a practice in which most interactions occur on a psycho-emotional level. 

How do you know what’s right for you? 

Remember that everything must be done carefully and slowly. Watch the BDSM video to get fresh ideas. In general, it is worth remembering two points:

• You may not be able to do everything right the first time. This is fine;
• At any time, even five minutes after the start, any of the participants have the right to stop the process.

It is worth discussing all acceptable practices before each session. Perhaps last time you enjoyed being suffocated, but this time it’s not the mood. Or vice versa, you plan to add spanking or biting – this should always be said. Even if you have been together for a long time and understand each other perfectly.

Dominance and submission

A practice in which the lower partner transfers power over himself to one degree or another to the upper partner. It is worth noting that the top partner takes on the responsibility of taking care of the bottom one. The top partner is called the Dominant, the bottom partner is called the Submissive. As a rule, the term for the transfer of power is determined by the agreement and is set for a period of one session of practice.

In this case, pain is not practiced. Except when the technique of dominance and submission is practiced, in this case, the punishment is not severe. For example, it can be spanking. But these slaps are not made to hurt, but to show that the submissive has committed a fault. Minding these basic principles will help to do everything right.