A) I’m never going to have a adult relations in life

B) I used to believe in soul mates until I had a list of frustrating bad relationships experiences                    

C) I’m not meeting anyone I would like to meet at all!

Please do not give up if you relate to any or all of the comments presented above. Believe me, I know, I’ve been there and it hurts as hell. The good news is you can get a laid even after bad experiences. It’s not too late; you can still get a naughty dating partner!

Would you like to know about the different kinds of soul mate relationships that exist? Why they exist? How to create and retain the best relationships for yourself?

Remember always you have FREE WILL.

I promise I will share more so don’t worry ladies. For now, here are 3 tips to ensure you call in the right mate and that you make your current relationships the best they can be.

1) Treat Yourself with Love

Some people think this means they will become self concentrated and selfish. Then they feel guilty and then the self criticism kicks in.  The voice of that inner critic is so very quiet. Deadly subtle at times, they don’t even notice it until it gets worsened.  Can you relate?

When was the last time you took really good care of yourself and took time for yourself?

My recommendations:

a) Book a lovely spa or massage treatment

b) Arrange a hike with a friend in the fresh air of mountains

c) Spend some quality time with your best friend (turn your cell phone off and be fully present)

Why do you have to follow any of the above suggestions?

Because they get you in touch with your soul. When you’re connected to your soul desires this leads to;

But first of all you may have to spend some time on adult dating sites to gain enough self confidence to meet people offline

2) Listen to Your Soul and You’ll Meet Your Ideal Mate

You have to know what you want. If you’re not clear about who you wish to spend your days with, you’re not going to get what you want at all. Get quiet and listen inside, be sure if you want no strings dating or life long relationship.

When you love yourself, take good care of yourself, you develop a sense of inner peace. This allows you to be specific about how you wish to spend your time and who you want to hang out with.

3) You Have to Believe Your perfect match Exists

You’ve done steps 1 and 2 and hopefully your soul is sensing the potential of a special soul mate. This is when the self sabotage is likely to kick in.

“I’ll never meet someone tall, dark and handsome. If I do, there’s got to be a snag. He’ll leave me, be unfaithful. I’ll get bored”.

The little self-sabotaging voice goes on and on until it wears down your positive expectations. What’s the outcome? You don’t meet anyone or you end up disappointed. That is why I have suggested you to join any local dating site like bedfordshire sex dating site.  Here you will meet lot of people having similar interest same as you. Your fear of losing your mate also will be fad away when you get used to these sites. Another very good site I remember is hampshire sex dating site. You don’t necessarily need to follow sites I have talked about. These suggestions are based on my local experience.  I have lived in both of these regions and these are the local sites of those regions.

Be optimistic; Even if it feels weird. Look in the mirror and appreciate your beauty.