Sharing and Caring
So love bots and dolls are climbing the charts and warming the beds of men and millennials alike over these past few years. And the demands are only climbing higher and higher. There are those that are undeniably against the entire idea and establishment and then there are those who are willing to turn a blind eye towards it.
Many of the men out there who purchased these glamourous companions initially did so during a turn of events when they were single or in between relationships, unless of course you count the ones that were just on the rebound through the devastation that follows a heartbreak or worse a divorce.
But would a partner or a wife be comfortable with the idea of a love doll?
Well here is something to consider before we jump to conclusions and judgement. Not everyone has an open mind and they would definitely latch on the first prejudice that comes to mind. But wouldn’t that same apply to every conventional and unconventional sexual aid that is on the market?
Consider all the stigmas attached to sex in general over the age. There was a period where the thought of a man flipping through the pages of a nudie mag or watching porn were the signs of an inevitable pervert. Was there any truth to it? Of course not, everybody and I mean everybody of all age and puberty goes through a phase like that for the sake of recreation. It was always harmless and no man considered it any different from sharing a bawdy joke.
There was an age and a time where even the mention of a dildo or a vibrator could be very much the deal breaker in a relationship. It often made the partner feel challenged at the very thought of the fact that they themselves weren’t enough to satisfy their partners. Not to mention the follow up thoughts of the stigma and negative connotations that society as a principal attaches to anything that goes against their conventional ideas of sexual behavior and welfare.
But the same can be said for the other aspects that drive up the kink and the fetishes that are coming out of the box for a change of late. The very thought of a simple whip, chain, collar or handcuff would have a girlfriend and partner screaming bloody murder. But a lot has changed, has it not?
Keep it simple rather it turns into an ugly surprise that occurred in the sudden discovery of these simple aspects to your sexuality. Take a lesson from the times where someone just found your stash of mags and videos. The key of creating an open mind is communication. Its best to divulge this part of you straight off the bat than keep it hidden and lead to inevitable discovery which only leads to shock and repulse. There is nothing to hide and there is nothing that is wrong to begin with. Beating around a bush would only lead to arguments, fights and what could be worse than the disappointment that follows.
The reality is that every relationship gradually improves with time as it evolves with the discovery of the self and the other person. No marriage or relationship can likely suffer from the existence of a bedside companion and a toy that is no different from any other toy as such. Chances are if treated the right, it can lead to new discoveries and a new frontier to explore. With openness and communication chances are that these silicone sex dolls can strengthen a bond and perhaps even heighten a relationship.